Struggles don’t arrive with a map. Neither does hope. These resources are organized for wherever you’ve landed.
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Resources
For Parents & Caregivers
- “I feel overwhelmed and don’t know what to pray.” → 5 Breath Prayers
- “Could I just get some encouragement?” → Why this is still “a season”
- “I need to dive deeper into thought patterns.” → Carrying this alone? One of these five statements might be exactly where you are or go to the full Field Guide.
- “Is this book actually for me?” → Can I guess where you are in 12 questions (and encourage you)?
For Support Crews
- How to Help Without Asking, “How Do I Help?”: Concrete ways friends and family can offer meaningful support without placing additional burden on already exhausted caregivers.
- “What do I say?” → Think about meaningful and compassionate alternatives to these common responses
For Pastors, Counselors, & Care Ministry Leaders
Note: These resources are not designed to replace counseling, pastoral care, or community, but to help families articulate struggles they often do not yet have words for.
“Siege of the Soul is a rare companion for anyone walking through the hidden valleys of fear, fatigue, and faith. Brianne writes with a tenderness and honesty that give language to experiences many parents in the special needs and varying-abilities community feel but struggle to express. Her blend of creative storytelling, theological reflection, and lived experience invites readers not only to feel seen, but also to sense the nearness of the God who holds us in our most disorienting seasons. This is a book I will gladly place in the hands of anyone who needs both empathy and hope.”
~ Scott Sauls, Pastor and Author of
Beautiful People Don’t Just Happen
- What is the orthopraxy of the Western church regarding disabilities in light of the Imago Dei?
- “What is Siege of the Soul about, and how does it come alongside my ministry?”
- A pastoral one-page overview of what families in the long haul actually need — and how this book equips them. Designed for care directors, Stephen Ministers, and anyone walking alongside families requiring extra care.
- An overview of the book’s framework for counselors working with parents of medically complex children with or without special needs — the lies that take root, the biblical counseling principles that address them, and how the book functions as a companion resource.
- “Where do I start, or deepen, the conversation?” → The Find Your Letter guided reflection is meant to pinpoint the current area of struggle and suggest a next step. (24 possible results keeps the results reasonably personalized.)
- “How do I help them explore deeper thought patterns over time?” → Field Guide: A practical companion for the long haul, addressing the emotional and spiritual realities of raising a child with medical complexity or special needs.
- “How do I help them understand lament is not failure?” → Why Naming Your Grief is Faithful
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